Why (some) men badmouth (some) women

Adrian George Nicolae
2 min readMar 12, 2024
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Recently I was thinking about the shame that happens throughout society, and more namely why women, more nowadays than before it seems, are getting flack.

And I wrote about it here, and also talked about it online here. I also talked about the damage Andrew Tate has done in society, but apparently that wasn’t well received.

But getting back to the subject at hand.

Shaming. And why women get it.
Growing up in Romania I’ve seen it happen often, and then moving to England, a country where people are more advanced mentally, or so they advertise, where it still happens, only on a somewhat larger scale, potentially due to the huge use in social media platform that exacerbate this as opposed to the Wild West before any of these existing.

Again, this is just my understanding, so maybe someone else might have a different interpretation, but I think that women are shamed because men can’t profit from it.
If some woman decides to have fun, she will be called all sorts of names, mostly by men with whom that will never, but also by men who not only have nothing better to do with their life, but potentially have nothing to offer or to receive in that area.
Now while some just overshare their exploits for no reason whatsoever, I’m more of the idea that if it happens to me, good, if not, there’s some lucky bastard out there that needs to be swapped out.

But in all seriousness, if men and women alike choose to overshare/brag about their hobby, they shouldn’t necessarily be made to feel bad it.
Why should some live in fear just because some haven’t evolved mentally?